Sunday, May 13 -
Ancestral Roots Day
The rain that began Saturday evening continued throughout
the day today and the temperature dropped from the 70’s to the 40’s. The forecast summer month went into hiding
and there was snow on the mountains and near some of the lakes. In brief, we all froze! And there were no sweat shirt shops to be
found! However, in Croatia, there are
always coffee bars and warm welcomes.
We drove through the rain to St. Nickolas Serbian Orthodox
Church in Karlovaca where some of our group experienced their first Orthodox
worship service. The church was built in
the 11th century and has been destroyed several times, most recently
in the war of the 90’s but rebuilt by the bishop about 5 years ago. Very few persons attend services, as they
still fear ethnic reprisals, but the priest Fr. Sasa was very welcoming and
also guided us to the local Monastery and a scheduled visit with the Bishop for
this region of Croatia. (See photos at
end of this blog)
We expected a brief meeting, but were ushered into the
monastery main hall to meet with the Bishop, a monk (who was their webmaster
and spoke perfect English), and Fr. Sasa.
However, they seemed to have all the time in the world for us; inquired
about our trip and ancestors; answered questions about the Orthodox Church in
Croatia; and offered us juice, kiffles ( a cookie my mother used to make),
cake, sheep cheese, and Sljivovica (very strong brandy) at 11 a.m. Definitely a way to keep warm on a cold day
in May. (More photos)
From the monastery we travelled to Blatusa in search of Rose’s and my grandfather’s home and our
roots. It is important to give thanks
to Guy Fisher (who is doing ALL the driving); Peggy Fisher our friend and
genealogist, who developed the idea for this trip and planned a fantastic
agenda; and Jugoslava, a Serbian genealogist
in Turkey, who searched endless documents to find our family history;
and Brenda and Glenn who were willing to use their vacation time to help us
find family roots. To them we will be
forever grateful. Through them we
learned things our relatives never talked about. We did
know my grandfather, Vaso Oresconin,
emigrated to the U.S.A. in 1917. We didn’t know he emigrated on his
brother’s passport to escape the military.
We knew we had a great grandfather and grandmother who had been burnt
alive in their barn for refusing to convert from their Serbian Orthodox faith
to the Catholic faith (really an excuse to carry out ethnic cleansing of Serbs
by the Croatians and not a church sponsored purging of people. We learned that on one day in 1941, 22
relatives were massacred with dozens of others in a church in Glina and one
month later almost every Serb who was
left in Blatusa was burnt alive in their homes.
This included 10 more members of the Oresconin family.
Our grandfather’s village is off the beaten path and very sparsely
inhabited. We were most fortunate, as we
knew the general direction of the village, but were told it was not
marked. On the way there we met a
police officer, who told us to drive to the coffee shop up ahead and turn
right. Later we ran into a hiker along
the road (at a which way do we go intersection) who told us to turn right. We found the village and were supposed to be
met by a student, who would find us – but never did. However ----
Once in the village we found the church, which is deserted
and fenced off. We had been told our
family had lived at house #31. Few
houses were numbered, but first we found the school with a monument to family
members who had died in the war. The
names included Rade Oresconin, whose passport my grandfather had used to come
to the states and other Oresconins. The
school has been destroyed but the structure remains with much rubble
inside. As education has always been
important to the family and Rose and I were both teachers, walking through the
building was very meaningful for us.
Outside the school we wondered what next, when we saw and
old man born in 1927. Peggy (who is fluent in Serbian) approached him and
he began by saying “I am a peasant,” but
was willing to talk a bit. He explained
that there was almost no one in the village and also knew the Orescanin family
house – the green house up the road.
Once again…divine serendipity came into play and WE WERE HOME!!!! While there we repeatedly heard the Cuckoo – cuckoo of the Cukica
bird. My grandfather always loved his
cuckoo clock and in retrospect…perhaps it was Grandpa’s way of saying hello,
I’m glad you’re here! (Pictures follow
of the house, well, barn, and outhouse – barely visible through the bushes around
it.) There are not words to describe the
wonderful feeling of being on the ground where our ancestors lived and
(unfortunately) died…but we felt at home.
Genetic roots go much deeper than we had ever imagined. Our ancestors honored education and some
were teachers, as Rose and I are teachers; some died for their faith and we
continue to have church roots; our
Grandfathers sisters were weavers and Rose is a Weaver; my great grandmother
was a gardener and herbalist , which are among my interests as well as our
brothers; my grandfather emigrated because he was a pacifist as did other
relatives and our brother was a conscientious objector in the Vietnam War era
and we all continue (especially Rose) to work for peace on earth and an end to
war!
Our ancestral home (rebuilt after the war) sits empty. One of the few villagers left has a large
number of beehives on the back porch and has padlocked the house from the
outside so no one else can get in it and to the beehives. We were disappointed that we could not walk
through the house, but content in knowing that the property is still being used
in a very positive and life sustaining/nourishing way.
Thank you, Peggy, Jugoslava, Guy, Brenda, Glen, and the
serendipitous strangers/angels that helped us find our way to #31 in Blatusa, a
once thriving village of Serbs in Croatia.
how amazing that you were able to do this, joan. a sense of awe is swelling inside my heart.
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